Let Me Take My Power Back

Today, we continue our exploration of Mel Robbins' transformative "Let Them Theory." Mel Robbins is a bestselling author, podcaster, and motivational speaker who has helped millions reclaim their power through practical wisdom and life-changing insights. Her work focuses on the science of transforming your life, breaking free from patterns that hold you back, and taking control of what truly matters.

Think back to a recent moment when someone's opinion or behavior upset you. Did you stay grounded and true to yourself, or did you let their actions knock you off balance?

Let me share my inner tug-of-war. After giving a Sunday talk that I'd poured my heart into, six people shared how deeply it touched them. Then someone said, "Great talk... maybe a little long? Also, your presentation seemed strained." I spiraled, replaying every sentence, hijacked by that one comment. Then I heard the whisper: "Let them have their opinion. Let me stay grounded. Let me take my power back."

Last week, we explored "Let Them,” letting others judge, doubt, or react however they choose. But Mel Robbins points out a crucial truth: "If you don't say 'Let Me,' you end up feeling isolated and stuck." The two-part power formula shows us that "Let Them" alone isn't enough. The real magic happens when we pair it with "Let Me." We hold both truth and peace by focusing on what we can control rather than obsessing over what we can't.

Taking radical responsibility means looking in the mirror, stopping the blame game, and owning our choices. Mel discovered this when she moved to a new town, feeling lonely and disconnected. Instead of waiting for invitations, she said, "Let me be the one who reaches out. Let me go after the life I want." That shift from waiting to acting transformed her entire experience.

Breaking the victim pattern requires recognizing that no one is coming to rescue you. You must be the hero of your own story. When we change our actions, our feelings change. Once we decide to change our behavior, we feel better.

Mel's story of Oakley's Prom Night illustrates this beautifully. When her son, Oakley, announced that the pre-prom dinner would be at "The Avocado Pit," a tiny taco bar, she panicked, imagining salsa stains and chaos. Finally, she laughed, handed him forty bucks, and said, "Go enjoy your tacos," reclaiming her peace.

Consider an area in your life where you can reclaim your power. Create a "Let Me" Declaration — a clear, personal commitment to shift your energy toward what you're choosing to do.

Here are some "Let Me" Declarations:

• “Let me” stand in my power and speak honestly.

• “Let me” protect my peace and set healthy boundaries.

• “Let me” stay curious and open to growth.

• “Let me” lead with love in every conversation.

• “Let me” show up fully, even if I feel uncertain. 

At week's end, reflect: What responsibility did I embrace that I used to give away? Where did I show up differently because I chose to own my response?

Blessing: “May you wake up each morning remembering your power is yours. May you pause long enough to hear your inner wisdom and take actions that move you closer to your vision. Let them be who they are. Let you be who you came here to be.”

Affirmation:

Today I reclaim my power. Let me be honest about what's true for me right now.